I have been thinking lately, about how many women have been a huge part of my life. I want to take a moment to remember and reflect on what I have learned from them.
First my grandma, Mildred Lucille Brown. She was a part of my life since my birth. I always remember her singing and humming, I always knew all was right with the world and she was happy when she hummed. (Usually a Hymn) She loved flowers and always had bleeding hearts in her garden, which are now my favorite. I remember sitting at her feet, watching her sew on her treadle sewing machine and later on newer machines. She patiently taught me how to sew, a love of hers that she lovingly shared with me. I love sewing today because of her. We used to stay up late and watch old movies ( Shirley Temple, Frank Sinatra, Elvis Presley, all the classics) I love this special one on one time we had. I always loved calling her on the phone and visiting. When I got married, she made my wedding dress and helped make a few brides maid dresses. She was always there for me even through having children of my own. She was a wonderful example of unconditional love and support. I can still see her smile and feel her warm embrace, I miss her every day and wish I could still pick up the phone just to hear her voice. I was a very lucky girl to have a grandma like her. I love you Grandma.
Next my mom, she always made sure we knew she loved us. I know times were tight, but she never let us know that and she often went without things so we not only had what we needed but also wanted. She has a smile that will light up a room, and her beauty is quiet and graceful. I watched her be strong when I am sure she wanted to give up. She is humble and her faith is immovable. I admire her strength and willingness to endure to the end. I am a lucky girl to call her mom. Because of her, I am who I am today! Thanks Mom!!
Through the years there have been other women who I admire and have watched closely, I have a few friends that have changed my life. Brian and I moved to Lacey and settled in, we found out our next door neighbor was LDS and a single mom. She was an amazing woman. She loved her three boys and they really gave her some struggles along the way. She always had a pleasant smile and warmth about her that made you want to always spend time with her. She came over and spent the night when I was in labor with our fifth child. I will always be grateful for her wisdom and kindness. There was another woman who kind of took us under her wings there. She is an amazing woman who is very talented. I loved how she came up with creative consequences when her children needed scolding. I took notes from her. She is loyal and loves her family and friends unconditionally! Thank you Lorraine and Jo Anne.
We later moved to Stanwood where we have been for 15 years. (wow, hard to believe) I was called into Young Women's and served with a woman who is around my mom's age. She is another amazing woman! She is wise beyond her years, and so fun to be with. We were called to be visiting teaching companions (lucky me!) She became one of my best friends. I have learned so much from her on how to be a parent, mother-in-law, and grandma. She has always been there for her children, helping to take care when a grandchild is born, letting grandchildren beautify her, I have felt of her love when she served me when I was in need. I love her dearly. Many women in our ward stepped up and served my family when we had a few trials with health issues. I have watched women who are so busy with their own families, find time to bring in meals, care for my children so I could be at the hospital, sit with me during stressful times, and send card to let me know they were thinking of me. I have another dear friend who sat with me all night at the hospital as my baby had to have emergency surgery.......Many of you may not know, but I watch you and admire your strengths and willingness to give of yourselves and time in the service of others. I only hope I can return the favor someday!!
Thank you to all the women (mentioned or not) in my life who I know are Angels on Earth sent by a loving Father. I hope in return I can be an Angel for you!! I am grateful for examples and Faith.
When I grow up........I want to be just like you!!!
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